that really depends on what type of relationship they were in. if what was left of the relationship was fizzling and both people knew it, then you can tell them if you'd like. by that point then that type of news may still be painful to them to hear, but at least it wont be a full blown shock. if your friend was really attatched to their boyfriend or girlfriend, then i wouldnt let them in on it. hearing it from their boyfriend or girlfriend first may provide some sort of closure on the relationship. because you telling them would be like you giving a spoiler to the twist ending of a movie or book, how you dont feel satified because you already knew. the fact that the boyfriend or girlfriend said it to them may leave them extra heartbroken, but at least it will be easier to get over becuase they had at least some closure. warning, this piece of advice is not accurate 100% of the time, but most times it is. one way or another, just make you're there for your friend, because a brake up is never easy. leave a comment if you want and i really hope this helps!
~natalie :)
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